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i am a 20 yrs old girl,i met a guy at a cousin's wedding,
had a huge crush on him,so i approched him through email after cuming back home.... he reciprocated, and we became gr8 frends....we shared almost everythg.. our dreams,realities.. everythg! but we never met after that wedding...!
we used to talk hr and hr togather online or on phone...
so basically a long distance 'relationship'!.... then we started having feelings for each other.. but since we were still studying..so,i discouraged him...meanwhile.. he came to my town once and we met(as frends)...it went gr8... he persuade me for 4 yrs staright... but i did not accept.... one day he met a gal frm his college and told me abt her and i got jealous! then one day... i accepted his love....and he sounded very unexcited!....as if nothing happened! when i asked... he said..'u were rite.. we hav to settle down and then think abt this... i need sum time!'(after all he said.. i wasnt very good to him.. and called it off!) we didnt talk after that day...now we both hav good jobs and r settled.. then after 7 months.... he mesged me on my b'day! eventhough,he's going around with dat same girl!... what does he want?....he hasnt forgotten me?..or he wants to be frends again?




Our Suggestion:
He probably msg'd you in a friendly way for your birthday.

But, who knows?, perhaps is he has started thinking of you again.

Answer him as a friend and if you want more then ask him questions like how is he doing, etc.

Good luck! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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