How to handle situationSuggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Me and my fiancee went to spend a week in London.Everything was great.We planned our last day to stay overnight at his friend's house and checked out from hotel.We were sitting and chating,having some drinks.Then some other friends came over (a girl and a man). We were drinking. We all were pretty much drunk.I don't know why,but we start kissing with that girl (I didn't know her before) and we thought it was funny..My fiancee didn't like it and asked to stop. We were laughing and drinking.. And after some time my fiance found me and that girl in bed naked, doing oral sex. I don't remember that... And I don't remember why that happened.I love my fiancee and I don't want to loose him. I believe if I was not consuming alcohol, nothing would happen, because I never thought about being with a girl. Now my boyfriend says that I cheated on him, but I don't want to agree with that, because I was not having sexual intercorse with other man. And I don't even remember what exactly happend with that girl. I appologized, said I am so sorry and asked him to forgive me. He said he did,but he can't stop talking about it.He keeps asking me why did I do that, but I don't know what to say, because I don't know and I don't remember. Please, help me. How should I solve this problem? The only way I see just to break up with him, but he doesn't want it..I don't want it aswell, but I don't know how to handle this situation.. Our Suggestion: Everything is ok except that he won't stop questioning you. How long has he been doing this? If it is less than a month then don't worry about it. If it's over a month then you need to deal with it. Continue to tell him you don't know the answers to his questions. You were drinking and stuff happens. If he can't get over it, you probably have no choice but to dump him. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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