Spark gone or what?Suggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Dated guy A for 2 years Broke up due to family issues Remained friends Dated another guy for about a year, did not work out. After a few months, started dating guy A again, things went well I left to study abroad, for 2 years, that too went well Now im back, its been 4 months, all well but NOW (oh btw, parents from both sides are okay wit the relationship now) I have started to feel unsure. I know by next year he wants to get engaged. He seems sure But I am not. Why? I sometimes feel the spark is gone and this might be the reason OR am I jus bored of him, is it time to move on? He is a great great great guy!! Am I scared I wont find someone like him Is that why im holding on to him ? Cause I am afraid I wont find someone like him and cant bare to see him wit someone else? We have dreams together, we have future plans, etc But what happened? Where did we go wrong? Where did I go wrong? Why do I feel this way? Do I really need to detach myself from him and move on? Thanks Our Suggestion: Since you are unsure, why not give it another month or two? See if the spark is really gone and if you are really bored with him. He may detect that you are acting differently in which case be honest with him. If after two months you have decided that the spark is gone then you will need to move on. It isn't fair to yourself or to him to pretend something that isn't real. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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