should i take the safe way out? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: ok so this girl and i just started dating a couple of weeks ago, and this girl i used to be together with has been trying to break us up ~i guess jealous~ but it hasnt worked but i she told me today that she likes me a lot and she wants to get back together.. i was wodnering if i should take the safe bet and take her or stay with my first one, we are in different grades so its making it hard and i dont know how long we will last. thanks Our Suggestion: First thing to do in any relationship is to be honest. Honesty gets to the heart of any issue as long as kindness is included. The person you are being honest with has to be mature to accept the honesty. That is where many relationships fall apart... due to the immaturity of one or other of the partners. So tell your current girlfriend what is going on and how you feel about it. That will probably answer the question you asked me. Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes