She's trying to get close to me.

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I'm 18 and she is 17. This girl is trying to get close to me, I know she is. I can tell she likes me. We talk a lot, and I enjoy talking to her - but I don't find that she is my type that I would normally date or get involved with. I don't want to be thinking that and then get involved with her, because I believe I'll have that doubt in the back of my mind.

My problem is that I have been single for a few years, and I really miss that female companionship. I want someone there to kiss and hold and possibly be intimate with. I don't know what to do. One part of me just wants to be really close to a female in general, but the other part of me doesn't want to get comitted to someone who I don't trust myself with as it isn't usually someone I would normally go after.

What should I do?




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My advice is to stay friends, but don't go any further because, as you said, she is not your type.

It will hurt both of you to try to make something where nothing really exists.

Sorry you are in this situation!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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