He Cheated Once, so I Turned into a Cheating Maniac

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Okay, me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and 2 months. I was sooo in love with him, even though he was so mean and rude 2 me and never said or has said he loves me back, until recently, when he told me he cheated on me.

I WAS SOOO HURT, that the day he told me i went and slept with one of my exes. And I ever since then, I just cant stop cheating. And he doesnt know about it, and sometimes i feel bad when I do it. but then I think about him cheating on me and how much i loved him and how much of his stuff i put up with. I mean geeez, i love him and dont wanna lose him, but he is just mean to me and has been before i started cheating. I just dont know what to do! i mean, should i tell him, or just break up with him or just leave it alone and let it run its course?




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I would break up with him immediately. This is not a relationship here - it is you abusing him repeatedly. That's not healthy for anybody. If you are incapable of being monogamous, then break up and then you can see whoever you wish.

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