Getting Over your Ex

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I know my ex is not the one for me and I know we will never get back together. I believe I know the way to move on but I'm not sure how to go about it.

I would love it if you could tell me how to get closure? I was thinking maybe I should invite him for a drink and talk. What questions should I ask and should I tell him that I still love him? I can't go ten minutes without thinking about him but I know deep down it's time to let go do you think that I am on the right track?




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You say that he's your ex. So you have already broken up with him and are still missing him. That is normal! Most people have weeks if not months where they miss their exs even if they were total jerks. It's part of the healing process.

I would NOT get back together with him if you are in rebound and are missing him. I have tips for getting over an ex here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/54875

so take care of yourself, give yourself time, spend lots of time with your friends. You will find that time will heal the pain and soon he will be a part of your past. But you have to give yourself the time to let that happen.

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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