She Wanted Space - I Want Her Back

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My girlfriend broke up with me, because she wanted space, but i want to try to get back together with her. How should I go about doing this?




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She wants space. It's important to find out from her exactly what she needs space FROM. Remember, people can be married for 30 or more year. Obviously these people don't divorce randomly to "find space" and then get back together again. They are able to have their own space even though they ARE married. They have their own friends, their own jobs, their own hobbies. They have both a wonderful loving relationship AND the space to be their own individuals.

So why didn't she do that? Why couldn't she balance the two? Why was her only choice to completely abandon you in order to "find space"? Were you too jealous? Too clingy? Something else? Only by talking to her can you really know what was bothering her, and work on fixing it.

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