He says its because he doesn't think he'll ever understand women.

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Ok, I have a question for you. My best friend told me today that he doesn't think he'll ever get married. Why, you ask? He says its because he doesn't think he'll ever understand women. He says the women he works with at the factory all tell him that they think he thinks he's perfect and arrogant, and that he just thinks he'll never get married because of the way he reacts to situations, and at times I think he's a little immature, but...he's my best friend and he's 26, I'm 24. (be 25 in August) He says he would marry me right away if it weren't for the fact that I have a 2 yr old son, and he says that scares him, the thought of being an "instant dad". He says he likes my son but that he doesn't know if he's ready for that yet. He says he's praying about it, and he also has never "done it" if you know what I mean. I think he's waiting for the "perfect person" to come along. Please help. I don't know what to do. He makes out w/me heavily whenever we're together, so that confuses me. Thank you for your help,




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Hey,

I think we answered this question in your last post of:

4/5/2004 1:39:53 PM: Fear of Marriage or Responisibility

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Marc

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