Homosexual Thoughts

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Visitor's Question:
When I was in Jr High had a sexual relationship with a friend, now after all these years I am attacted to another man. I don't want a relationship I just want to give him oral sex. I don't know how to ask. I don't want to ruin our friendship, nor do I want him to tell others what i asked him. What do I say? How do I tell him what I want?




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As you know, many people have very antagonistic views about homosexuality. So you could easily ruin the relationship and - if the guy goes around telling people - your life. I'm not trying to scare you off, but you have to be aware of the issues.

I would start by bringing up general topics of homosexuality, to see how the person feels. Maybe talk about a movie that features a homosexual theme, or so on. You need to be very careful about how you approach this topic, finding out more and more about how this guy feels. That way if you find out he really dislikes homosexuals, you know to stop discussing the topic.

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