First Sex - Is it Painful? Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: is it true that when one is penetrated just for the first time once and no other thrusting takes place and she spends two years without doing any sex she goes back into feeling pain all over again once she decides to have sex again? Our Suggestion: The pain of a first intercourse is that the hymen (assuming it is there and whole) is ripped open. Once that is done, it's done. Sure, if you are a small girl with a big boy, there is always the chance that it will be uncomfortable because of that size difference. It's like stuffing a big hot dog into a tiny roll, the roll will have to stretch open. But the biggest pain-causer - the hymen - is gone once you have sex that first time. --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes