Now she is talking to my friend, the one i was suspicious about

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MY ex and i have been together for years now. We had our ups and we had our downs. To make the long story short, I started to become suspicious and yes, eventually i became controlling. I felt like she liked one of my friends and we got into a lot of arguments and broke up over it. Now she is talking to my friend, the one i was suspicious about. for some reason, i'm not mad at him. i just want to be back with her. i regret all my faults and really want to work things out. she's telling me she is confused. what do i do?




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