i am extrememly happy with him.

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I've have this boyfriend of a month now and i am extrememly happy with him. After of only a week knowing him, i couldn't stop thinking about him and when we were together, no matter what we were doing . . i loved to be around him, Recently, I had to go and visit my father and i had to stay up there for 3 weeks and while i was up there, i started to feel fear of losing him, i started to worry about him, i got very protective of him and everything and i have this strange feeling in my heart when im around him, talking to him, or much less, thinking of him. And i haven't even liked a guy in 3 years. But this feeling is soo strong and it's scaring me because it's only been 2 months. Would you say this is love? Or what?




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You are head over heels in love, which is not love. You're full of that wonderful elixer of happiness that is really great, so enjoy it!

Don't worry about where the relationship is going or whether the feelings are too strong. Just go with the flow and take each day as it comes.

Just don't go buying a house with him yet. Don't do anything so long term that you'll regret it. Leave that all for later when you settle in with each other, about 6 months or so.

Good luck!



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