Boyfriend moves out Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and for the past few months we've been having problems. I discovered that he was cheating on me. The problem is, this is with random women, never the same and it's just to use them. We're a kinky couple into BDSM and he does this with these women too. We were communicating and working things out and then he went on vacation for a week. We talked everyday and things were great, we were looking forward to seeing each other. Well, the day he gets back, I go to a wedding. I call him when i'm on my way home and he tells me that he's breaking up with me and that he's already moved his things out. This was 100% out of the blue and I don't understand. Now, he has a lot of problems, but I just want him back. What should i do? Our Suggestion: Unfortunately, I have no answer that will really help you. It sounds like your ex has found someone new and is afraid to tell you. But, in any case, he has moved out and at the moment only he knows why. Maybe he contracted a disease? If you have contact with him, you should find out exactly why he left and if he might consider coming back. You would also have better luck talking with a family therapist/counselor who could spend the time figuring this out with you. I'm really sorry I can't be of more assistance. Best wishes, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes