She is gone Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: I was seperated from my wife (we have 3 children & 1 child being 2 months old when we met) for about 4 months when I met & fell in love with this wonderful woman. She was also seperated with 1 child. I was afraid to tell her about the seperation & children so I lied about the ex & kids. 8 months later I told her about the children but lied & told her about 2 of them because of what she might think & not wanting her to know about the ex & time we were married. To cover her finding out I told her an incorrect last name if she checked records. We got engaged & starting planning our wedding when she found out my true last name. A short time later she found out I had been married & was in the process of a divorce. I never meant to hurt her & I was always faithful never cheated on her. She has lost trust & faith & now says I'm dead in her eyes. Any suggestions on getting her to talk to me & maybe start as friends to get the relationship back going? Thank you for any help! Our Suggestion: I don't blame her for having lost trust in you. And, trust is one of the cornerstones of a good relationship. In my opinion she is gone for you. If, however you want to give it a try, you should work on the trust part very, very hard. Good luck, George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes