He's getting what he wantsSuggest AdviceDo you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: Okay. I met this guy "G" from my ex-friend "K". At first K and G were dating but he soon figured out that she was not a good friend or lover. While G and K were dating, me and K both lived with him and his cousin "M". I didn't have a place to live so G and M let me live with them. After G realized that K was a tramp he soon kicked her out. G and M both said that I could live there as long as I wanted. One night, before G kicked K out, all of us were sleeping in G's bed. K soon fell asleep and G and I started talking and soon it turned to flirting. When things got kind of hot G told me that he wanted me to go with him to the other room to sleep on the futon. We then flirted a little more and soon he asked me to have sex with him. I agreed and we had sex. So while it was me and G and M all living in the apartment, me and G had sex at least once a day. We weren't dating but we were very intimate with eachother and we had sex often. At first I didn't want to get close with him because I didn't want there to be an emotional attachment but I soon started liking him a lot. I started wanting to be his girlfriend but we had made an agreement before that we would remain just friends so I won't tell him that I actually love him. I know he cares about me and loves me but he doesn't want to try to pursue a relationship with me. I haven't talked about it but I know he doesn't. The thing that baffles me is that if I was to be with another guy he would get jealous. It's like he doesn't want commitment but I don't know why. After 3 months of living together, G told me I had 3 days to get a job or I would have to move out. I tried really hard to get a job but it's almost impossible to get a job in 3 days so I moved out the morning of the 3rd day. Me and him still see eachother everyday and we have sex nearly everday also. I still want to be his girlfriend but he still doesn't want to pursue a reltionship with me. I am so confused on what to do! Should I sit down and tell him that either we are together, the whole nine yards, or were just friends, with no kissing, sex or holding hands...nothing?! And I also want an explanation for why he is acting the way he is, if that's possible. Our Suggestion: My advice is to forget him and move on. He has made it clear that the only thing he wants from you is sex. Giving you three days to get a job and then throwing you out is a VERY good sign that he is not even your friend. He is acting the way he is because he is immature and selfish... lose him! Good luck! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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