Two year separation

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7yrs. And in the six year he went alway, and got some girl pregnant. He told me about the girl, and yes I was very hurt. But I thought we could work through it. But when she came down so he could c his son things change. He started acting different. His mom thinks she is ugly, and plus she is upset by the whole thing. Anyway, he said he wanted to be friends, cause it wouldn't be easy starting were we left off. I went along with it, but it was to hard and I just stop talking to him. He said he wants to b there for his son. But at the same time he said he can't choose between me and her. I have not talk to him in almost 2 years. But me and his mom still kind of write to each other. I love him so much, and I still think about him everday. Its driving me crazy. And I know he miss me to. We went through so much together. But I just can't be the one to try to find him and tell him how I feel again. He would have to do that. My question is to u. Do u think he will ever come around. I don't know what's wrong with him. I know he still love me, but I just don't know if I sould forget about him




Our Suggestion:
It's been two years now. You need to get over it.

My advice is to see a counselor to help you get over your unreasonable attachment to this long gone romance.

Sorry you are in this situation!
George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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