I desperately want to save my marriage Suggest Advice Do you have some advice for this person? Visitor's Question: My husband of 11 years wants a divorce. It's my fault....well, mostly. I had an affair.....for the usual reasons. I was lonely. We had drifted apart. I will not try to justify my actions. There is no excuse for what I did. For a few weeks he was trying to forgive me and put it all behind us. Then, abruptly he informs me that he wants a divorce. He has recently started "talking" to someone and he wants to move on. I feel like my life is over. I desperately want to save my marriage. I will do anything to get him back. I have pleaded. I'm not sure how to go about this. People have told me to play hard to get, but I need to regain his trust. He says he still loves me, he is just hurt. He says it could never be the same. What do I do. Our Suggestion: You two are prime candidates for a marriage counselor. It seems to me that both of you are very close to each other but he is having a hard time dealing with your affair. A professional counselor could help you find your way back to each other. I hope this all works out the way you want! George --Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com Your Advice: IMPORTANT NOTE: This form is not for getting advice!! This form is for adding your helpful note to THIS existing question. If you need advice, pleae read the Advice Pages. Your Gender: Female | Male Your Age Range: Select an Age Range 13-20 21-30 31-40 41-50 51-60 61+ Theme by TheBootstrapThemes