he said he will dwell in a hardshell so he won't get hurt again

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My ex boyfriend and i were dating for 11 months. during our relationship i didn't treat him very nicely. i was afraid that our relationship would go bad because nobody i knew had one that lasted. he got fed up with my behavior and now treats me the same way. i broke up with him in the end but i want him back. i am changed and i want him to know that, but he said he will dwell in a hardshell so he won't get hurt again. how can i get him to realize that i am changed and sincere to his feelings?




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Continue to be friends with him.

Share your feelings and listen to his problems. Pretty soon he will come out of his shell and hopefully redevelop his feelings for you.

Good luck! George

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