He even looked up from playing with his cell phone to say hi

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I am an 18, 19 in 1 month, year old college student, and am in a wheelchair.I have trouble telling the difference between guys who just flirt, or feel bad and give me attention because of my chair,versus a guy that shows he genuinely likes me. Being in a wheelchair sometimes guys are afraid to be involved with you, and some just don't want to be, so I am very inexperienced.I saw this guy the first day of college this semester as a friend of mine and I were going to class. He came up to us and was asking where my friend was going, and if she wanted him to take me to class because it turned out she was going to a farther building than where I was headed.I gave her a "look" which told her that I wanted him to take me so he did.He starts off with small talk, what do you have next and all that, and then he started asking me the time of the class and that's when the pet names started, I was running late so he said "you're late Darlin'!" then since it was my first day I told him that if I ever was running late again I'd come find him to take me to class and he said "it's no problem Honey". After that it was as if I would never see him again but last week I did. He said hi to me each day I saw him and included a pet name, once was Baby, once was Sweetheart and I think Honey was in there too. He even looked up from playing with his cell phone to say hi. I haven't gotten his name yet, but next time I see him that's the first thing I will do! I just hope it's not as long before I see him as it was after the first time, it was over a month. What should I do? Do you think I will see him again? Do you think he likes me, feels bad for me, or is just flirting? I don't know where to take this potential relationship!




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You should make your move soon because he may just disappear.

Next time you see him, you should not only get his name but his phone number too. Then call and see if you can make friends with him.

Who knows why is interacting with you... he seems to be a naturally friendly person so that's probably a lot of it. After you make friends with him you will be able to find out more.

Good luck, George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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