Can I really get her back, or is she done with me?

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I'm 20 years old. My girl friend and I had a very good relationship. She and I were close, and according to her she loved me, and I was the first man she'd ever met who seemed to genuinely care about her. I am absolutely in love with this woman, but she recently broke up with me. She says she still loves me, but that she feels detached, and by the end of our relationship she loved me, but she only saw me as a friend. She says she can't be sure if that will change. I've stayed friends with her, because I care about her, and I'll be what she needs and hope I get a second chance. Can I really get her back, or is she done with me?




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You are doing the right thing by staying close friends with her.

Nobody can tell whether she will come back to you or not.

The best thing you can do is be there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on or a friendly ear to talk to. I hope she returns to you.

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Good luck! George

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