Should I tell her and expect the consequences?

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A couple of months ago I met the most wonderful girl in the world,a nd I have fallen in love with her. We both want to spend the rest of our lives together. She cheated on me twice both within a few days of eachother, and before we talked of love and marriage. It took her a while to tell me and I was really upset. The problem is, is that I cheated on her also. A girl came on to me and I didn't stop her. It has never happened again and never will, but I don't know if I can tell her. I love her so much now that when girls come on to me I get disgusted by there actions. Is it okay to keep this from her if it never ahppens again, and how can I brush it off, or should I tell her and expect the consequences?




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Yes, you should tell her.

My guess is that there won't be consequences since she did the same thing twice to you. In fact, it might make her feel better about herself.

Honesty is almost always the right policy, especially when the outcome isn't likely to be bad.

Could be that I'm wrong though! --George

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