He was in 9th i was in 12th. well i got preg and i had the baby

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i am so lost now. i was with my ex mike we will call him not his real name tho for 6 months. he was in 9th i was in 12th. well i got preg and i had the baby. ever since i had the baby he does nothing. we fight all the time, he says he wants me back but everytime he has the chance he doeasn't take me back. he won't even talk 2 me. i love him with all of my heart and soul. i don't know what 2 do. nothing i do gets me over him. i tryed hanging out with my friends and staying busy but its not working. i really could use some advice. how do i move on and let go? or should i try 2 get back with him? i know he cheated on me before and i did the same. we both lied 2 each other hundreds of times. when i ask him if he wants me back he says i dont know. what do i do?




Our Suggestion:
Don't try to go back with him, move on.

He has proven that he is not a trustworthy person and not ready to act as a father to your baby.

The best way to move on is to find a new boyfriend--keep that in mind.
Another way is to concentrate on your baby and help the little darling grow and become healthy. That's the most important thing in your life right now. If you are feeling sad because of your ex then the baby will pick up the vibes and think that you are unhappy about the baby.

Try to find a job to help support you and the baby. It will take your mind off of your troubles.

Hang out with your friends and that will make you feel better.

Hope some of this helps! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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