It's too hard hugging her goodbye and not being able to kiss her

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I have written to you before. You advised me to tell my friend I have feelings for her and I did. Since then we have grown even closer. She has a boyfriend now though. She was with him before I told her how I felt. I like this girl so much. I don't know what to do. I know she has a boyfriend so I am kinda paralyzed right now and can't do anything about it. I am starting to think this is the girl I am meant to be with. I have put a lot of time and energy into her and I dont't want to move on because I like her so much. Should I ask her if theres ever a chance for us to be together. Would that be a good idea? I can't keep hanging out with her and saying goodbye. It's too hard hugging her goodbye and not being able to kiss her. You will probably tell me to keep being her friend. I know thats the right thing to do but it's so hard. Any advice will help.




Our Suggestion:
You could ask her if there is any chance of you two going out.

But, as you predicted my advice is to remain her friend and let things develop. It isn't fair to her to ask for more while she has a b/f.

Good luck! George


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