Both are too shy

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Hi...I would like to know if you could give me advice.
My name is Monica(19)and I like this guy. We met 3 years ago on highschool when I started to like him I did nothing to get closer with him I just tried to go to same places as him and there hoped he come and talk to me. The problem is both of us are extremely shy so now 3 years after that I am exactly were I started. When we are on parties we say hi but nothing more, sometimes I catch him looking at me but he never approaches. Right now I really dont know what to do to get closer to him and talk to him, also I dont really expect him to come to me. Both of us are really shy so please help me to do something so we can talk...Thanks!




Our Suggestion:
Break shyness by practice, practice, practice.

Whenever you see him look him straight in the eyes, say to him in a clear voice "Hi" plus his name, and give him a big smile. Keep doing this until you feel comfortable to ask him how he is doing...he will say fine... and you say great!

Eventually, a conversation will begin between you two and the shyness will be less. Don't wait for him to come to you, you go to him.

Good luck! George

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