The only problem is that he's a "bad boy.."

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Okay, so pretty much I haven't had a boyfriend in awhile.. a few months maybe.. so I'm at the point where I'm really open-minded about anyone. Nonetheless.. theres is a boy that likes me. At first I was kind of like um okay.. didn't pay attention the to the fact.. but now I'm starting to really like him back. The only problem is that he's a "bad boy.." he like does some drugs and drinks and stuff.. and I am kind of a good girl I guess.. so it's hard to decide if it'd be okay to date someone like that. He really cares about me, I can tell.. but I am also scared that I might end up losing my virginty to him, because he's def. not a virgin.. and I've heard stories. I just don't know if I should go with my heart and date him ((because he asked me out)) or with my head.




Our Suggestion:
Don't date him.

As you said, he is a "bad boy." There is no good reason to date him except that nobody else has asked you. Maybe you should find some nice guy and you ask him.

The risks of going out with him include that you might start drinking, doing drugs, get a social disease, get pregnant, and lose your reputation. That's a pretty high price to pay just to get a b/f.

So, this is a good time to listen to your head! George

--Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com




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