She is really unreliable about doing things

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hello!. to the point: there is a girl i work with who will ask me everytime i see her "what am i doing tonite" the problem is that i have come to realize now that she is really unreliable about doing things. now i am wondering if she is just playing headgames and how i can either get them to stop without being rude.(not to get fired). thx advice always welcome.




Our Suggestion:
Did you try my last suggestion about YOU asking her to go out right after work so you would leave from work together?

Anyhow, why not try a new track. When she asks you what you are doing tell her "Oh, unfortunately I'm not available tonight." This will give her pause and maybe give you an edge.

This situation is really unreal. You are being a waffle by not taking a stronger stand with her. Like telling her to take a hike.

Good luck! George

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