He has custody of his 2 kids

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i was dating this guy......my next door neighbors son who lives in a different city.....he has custody of his 2 kids....i have 1.....i felt things for him that just wont go away.....i dont know what to do im sooo lost i want him back and he says he still cares for me but his ex is crazy...and with us together its alot of work with the kids. I really need some advice
PLEASE HELP!!!!





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If you get back with him you will have to deal with three children and his crazy wife. These are the drawbacks you mentioned.

But you say you want him back.

My advice is to make a list of things about getting back together.

Things like: finances; where would you live; child support; relatives; friends; jobs; place of worship; what if it doesn't work out, etc.

Once you have the list, spend a lot of time thinking about what the pros and cons of each aspect of the possible change.

If you still can't make up your mind, let time go by and see what happens.

Good luck! George

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