This is stronger than my puppy love from B4

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i'm 14 years old.
I've been going out with C* (13 yr) for just a over a month now, and known him for just about 4 months. He is a WONDERFUL guy!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE HIM...... I KNOW I DO!!! We are really close. He's my best friend now too. He feels the same towards me.
He said i've completly changed his. B4 we met he told me, he done REALLY bad things.(I didn't belive him at first.Eg. drugs,fighting coz he's very aggresive and a few other things.) He usually fights at school like almost every day, till just 2 weeks ago he promised he'll stop, and he has. He's the first gul that made him feel like this. (i wish i could say the same).
(Well i don't know if you remember but i spoke about him b4,he said he doesn't have long to live.) We had a complicated situation with some lie about me and his aunt. any way making it short, when we spoke over the phone i said that there's only one thing that we can do if he's family disapproves of us. He asked what, i said that i don't even wanna say it. So he guessed an aked "break up" for some reason, right there and then i wanted to cry, and we weren't even gonna break up!
Later on he told me that he told his dad about the dad things he has done.He told me some things else. I started to cry over the phone coz he was saying how much i changed his life ,i haven't cried like that for a while.
Well, his family likes me, mine like him and my friends do to. He's AMAZING and i love him.
I use to be kinda boy crazy in a way and some of the guys flirt with me at school (C* and i don't go to the same schools.)And i don't feel comfortable coz i'm going out with C*. Some of them know i've got a boyfreind but some don't. I want them to stop. I'm not a mean person or bitchy so i don't know what to do or say. So what can i do?
And what do you think of us 2?
Is it love?
This is stronger than my puppy love from B4 with my ex. This feels totally different,VERY diff.




Our Suggestion:
When they flirt with you, you can say jokingly "Wait until my boyfriend finds out."

You two are fine. You should get to the bottom of his physical problems. I find it hard to believe that he is based on your last letter.

Hope this helps! George

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