She will not clarify what she really wants

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For eight months now I have liked my female co-worker. She is well aware of my feelings for her. She is sure she likes men, but says she has curiosity with me since I told her I liked her. We are very close, but it seems that she is hiding something and I can't seem to take it out of her no matter how hard I try or how deep I get into a conversation. She says she wants to try, but is afraid that she will like it, then she worries what she will tell her 2 kids and family if they come to find out. All this takes me to where I am so confused because she insists she will take me home one day from work and drop me off. She drives, but not to my house. She drives around the block really slow, then she takes me to her house. What does she want? What can I do with her because she is confused? This is hurting me, she will not clarify what she really wants. Please, George, tell me your opinion. Do you think it's going anywhere? I keep my distance and it seems that when we are alone she wants me to do something, but I will not touch her even though I die to give her just one kiss. (Thank you)




Our Suggestion:
It seems to me that she is waiting for you to make the first move.

She is no doubt nervous about the whole situation.

You are commendable for not taking advantage of her.

Good luck! George

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