I want to ask him to choose but I'm afraid

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
im 17 years old and my boyfriend and i have been dating for 10 months now and early in the relationship problems started to occur with a girl that i thought was his ex. during summer break i caught him in a park close to my house with her and he claims he was there looking for me but i dont know what to believe since she lives a block away from me. after we returned to school i found out he was dating her also and she knew i was dating him after finding this out i broke up with him but we eventually got back together. i still think or knows that he messes around with her although he denies it i do not trust him and it is putting a strain on our relationship i really love him but i dont know what to do i want to ask him to choose but im afraid he wont choose me and i cant afford to lose him i love him too much. what should i do???
sincerely yours trixie

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You must trust him.

Trust is one of the most important aspects of a good relationship. And if you don't have a good relationship then what's the point of it?

Have a long honest talk with him about this subject and let him know that if you lose your trust then things will be very bad. Hopefully he will get the message.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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