she's dating a jerk and she knows it should be me.

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
so i've known this girl for a couple of years and more recently, the past two months, we've been seeing each other everyday. we'll talk late into the night and for all intents and purposes we are a couple. except for the fact she's been dating this other guy that i didnt know about for about 3 months.

i thought it was ok and that she'd probably end up leaving him just because of what a jerk he is. he used to be a drug addict and he went to rehab because of it but now he's "getting better" and going to a private school. i use quotations because everyone knows that he's still doing other drugs and lieing about it. he lies to her and she takes him back everytime. he's always standing her up and not calling and just being a bad boyfriend. i know because i'm the guy she comes to and talks about it with.
i may just be hearing all the bad but for the amount of time they spend together, not alot, it seems to be more bad than good. but of course she still wants to be with him for some reason.

now me and her. she tells me that i can't do anything wrong and that she's never met anyone like me and i'm the best person she ever met. her family loves me and tell her to date me and all her friends think the same. everything we do is like a perfect fit. and she's showing all the body language and verbally telling me that she wants to be with me.

so my question is this:
do you think i should stick around and wait for her to dump this guy? or should i just get out of there and try and forget about how she makes me feel. Advice
Tell her it's time to choose.

Two boyfriends is one too many.

You are the obvious choice so things should go your way.

Don't be confrontational when you tell her. Be gentle and loving and tell her it isn't fair to anyone for her to be splitting her feelings like she is doing.

Good luck! George

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