im soo confused with her.

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im 17 and there is this girl that i started to get to know. im one of those shy types. so i didnt talk to her much. at first didnt feel for her. but as we started doing club events together, i started gettin feelings for her, basic inflaution. So i was gonna ask her to prom when my friend went and askd her. she said no to him. so i went and askd her and she said yes. took her to prom, everything was good. didnt get to drop her off at her house cuz i had a little accident. nyway i told her via Myspace message that ima ask her a question, which was to see if she wanted to hangout n do a double date sorta thing with my friend. but since i only knew her for like a month, i think she thought i was gonna ask her out to be my GF and jus freakd her out. so my friend told me that she would say no to me, so i got a bit frustrated and messaged her on myspace askin "y did u come to prom wit me" and n she answerd back "i was being nice and i didnt wanna hurt ur feelings" jus plain pissed her off (my fault). So she tells me that we have to meet in the parkin lot where she tells me that shes not interestd in me, and that she only likes clean cute lite skinned guys. I jus dont fit clean cut and black thats it, im a bit tan but not the dark tans. So nyway laid off her for a few weeks, an advice a good friend of mine gave .. so she can have some breathin room and relax. So i did. but before that i had sent her a whole buncha appology letters via myspace, but never got a reply from her till a few weeks later. so she started to talk to me again. shes a really nice girl. always says hi to me. and whenever im ina room full of people she always says hi to me 1st. and now im goin off to college and if might be the last time i see her unless i call her(i cant seem to pull myself to do), which a few of my friends are insistin on. i dont know what to do can u help? sorry bout the story style format .. had to do it or u wouldnt know the other half. Advice
You don't want to waste your summer just thinking about her.

Instead, build up the courage to ask her out again. Her preferences for boys will be overcome by the personality of an individual boy and that could be you.

If you don't try you can't win... so give it a try.

Good luck! George

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