why cant i beleive him?

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
ok i have an extremely important question ok me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and i love him to death but i am constanly thinking hes cheating on me. some times i wont even let him hang out with his friends. its has gotten to the point where i cant help but alwayswonder and ask him everyday. he tells me no but i just cant beleive it i cant and i make myself sick. i want to beleive him but hes lied too many times. he only lies to me because i yell at him for not wanting to be with me or not wanting to talk to me or he didnt call me. i constanly panicing. its gotten to the point where i beleive im abusive. i actually have hit him because he gets me angry. this all started about three months ago when my friend said that my oyfriend wa cheating on me then i found a text message on my boyfriends phone asking some girl out it was right after the first time we broke up. he otld me his friend asked the girl ou but i really dont care if he did.its getting to the point where he thought about cheating on me before. i dont want to lose him. im desperate. i want ot be happy again. i need some self esteem tips and i want to know why i cant beleive him and i also need tips on how i can trust him> thank you so much for listening.

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RomanceClass.com Advice
One of the most important elements of a good relationship is trust.

You have lost trust and that explains all the other problems you are having.
If you can regain that trust then you will be happy again.

So I am going to refer you to a website that has very good information on trust. Read it very carefully and use the tips it offers. It is:

http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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