How Do I Flirt

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
How can i flirt with a guy? What are things i say and do? I talk to him on the phone but what kind of stuff do I say? And on AoL too. I dont wanna be annoying i just need pick up line..that are funny too. I need help really bad..please help me!

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RomanceClass.com Advice
Yikes, lines are a REALLY bad idea!! Flirting is NOT about pick up lines. It is about you getting a really good connection with this one human being that you like. Every single human is different! So what he would have fun talking about could be completely different than what another guy would enjoy talking about. And if you just start reciting lines at him, making him feel like he's "Guy #142 in your list of flirtees for the day", he will hang up quickly.

The one most important thing in flirting is to make the guy you are flirting with feel UNIQUE and SPECIAL. To talk about things that he loves, and for you to show you know what he cares about. So ask him, talk with him about those topics, encourage him to tell you more! Read up on the topic and tell him things you know! That is what real flirting is about, it is about making that guy feel like he is someone you are solely and singularly interested in.

I have lots of flirting advice here -

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23681


-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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