what to do?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i've ben with my girlfriend for about 6-7 months now..everything has been fine until she cheated on me..i took her back because every1 deserves a second chance..well after that she's ben on "breaks" with me...three times..and all those times she's kissed somebody...which is the reason why i act the way i do now...it happened a long time ago but it still sticks with me to this day..i love her and all but i just find myself to be jealous all the time which makes us fight alot..i dont kno if im the bad person here over reacting the way i do when she's talking to guys..because i do get mad..especially when she told me "i flirt alot" i just don't kno what to do..and i think sex plays a major role in our relationship...so what should i do? should i just hold on to her and see if i can trust her? or should i just let go..

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RomanceClass.com Advice
Maybe she thinks kissing is allowed on breaks.

And probably a lot of people think that too. Others think differently.

You need to have a long, honest, trusting, and caring talk with her on this whole subject of jealousy.

Jealousy is hard to fight. Take a look at this website for help:

http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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