how to get my Ex Back

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I’ve been with this girl for six months, we met when we were both vacationing , I was from New York and she was from Toronto. after she went back to Canada we kept in touch by phone and emails. and after a month she came to visit me in New York, we became intimate. and for the next six months. I will go and visit her. and she would come and visit me. and we talked about moving to become closer. so after I agreed to move to Toronto, she was exited at the news’ but after I went to visit her this last month she seamed distant. so I asked her what was wrong and she told me that she didn’t want me to move. she said that she wanted me to see other girls because I was younger then hear and she was my first so I need to get more experience and that am still young even doe we are three years apart. so I told her that I’m in love with her and I don’t want to see anyone else. after I came back To New York. she stopped calling and emailing me. so after five days I decided to call and we talked. she told me that she does not know what she wants. and the situation with her ex is not over. she started crying and she said that she dose not know what she wants at the time. So I agreed to give her time but after one week I couldn’t wait anymore. I called her she didn’t answer me. I left her a massage. but she still didn’t answer me. I kept calling and calling and leaving her messages. that she needs to let me know what she is going to do. until finally she answered. she was very angry with me. she told me that it is over between as. she could have considered if I have giving her time. but I couldn’t do that. and that am a lot more into her then she is into me and that it is not fair for me to be with her. so I asked if she is going back to her ex. and she told me that she myte. because he understand her better to leave her alone when she asks him. so I begged her to give me another chase but she wouldn’t. I asked her at least not to shut me out completely. but she told me again that it’s over and I need to move on. and if I needed to contact her she would rather if I Emailed instead of calling her but not until a month has passed.. It has been tow weeks know and I haven’t tried to call her. but I don’t know what to do. I don’t know how to fix it. I really love her. and I need to get her back. please help me.

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RomanceClass.com Advice
Once the month is up and you are allowed to email her, send her an email and tell her you still love her and would like permission to call her once a week for fifteen minutes only to see how she is doing. The call will be cheerful and no talk of relationships.

If she agrees, you have a foot in the door for future growth in your relationship. Until then you will have to lay low. If you really love her you will do this because otherwise it is over.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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