Can You Shed Some Light? Is She Cheating? Really?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i have been going out with my girlfriend for 3months now. It Is Long Distance, I Am In Derby She Is In London I have found out she has been lying about little things that really don't matter, therefore she had no need to lie.

What I Really Want To Sort Out Is This:-

Last Year 2005 my gf "alledgedly" had a child with some lad who she was off out with for 2 years, she was 15 at this time.
"Supposedly" the child was murdered along with the babysitter.
They Split Up At The Beginning of This Year, Seeing As He Went Into the Army. He Sends Her Money, "for herself and the ex-baby". Even though They Are Not Together.
There Is No Evidence Of A Child At Any Point And I Am Not Alowwed To Mention it To Her Parents. I Think She Is Lying About The Baby.

Now There Is Another Lad Who She Went Out With For 2 Years When She Was 9? ( Does Anyone Else Think ABout Long Term At That Age???) He Moved To Ireland The Relationship Stopped. I Found Out She Was Going To See Him In December This Year. To Catch Up And To See Him Because His Mum Died Or Something. Anyway That Changed And Was Post-poned Till July 2007.

I Believe That The Lad (1) She Had The Baby With And The Other Lad From Ireland (2) Are The Same Person.

I Believe Lad 1 is in the army based in Ireland and was going to visit her over xmas, as he would have had leave from the army. He Sends Her Money As I Feel They Are Together. She Uses Me As She Needs To Feel Loved? I Do Not Trust Her, And It Hurts To Think She Has Someone Else

I Am Confused Need All The Help Possible. Advice
Tell her you want to know where and on what date her baby was murdered.

If she asks why tell her you want to go to the library and look up in the newspapers and see what the newspapers said. She will probably ask why and you might as well tell her you don't believe the story of the murdered baby and you want to prove it to yourself.

She won't like this but it may get her to tell the truth if she is lying.

Good luck! George

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