im so in love and she broke up with me-i really want us again

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
my girlfriend broke up with me last night.i just wrote you guys and considered things u wrote and was willing to try-last night she broke up with me and i didnt see it coming.she was very mean and everything was my fault and bringing up things from 2 years ago.i couldnt understand why she was actn this way-we were suppose to go out-but i couldnt cuz my daughter was sick and then she would normaly cum over during times like that-but she startd sayn she wants out and im holding her back and her soulmate is out there and not 2 text or call her and shes done 4ever.im shocked and hurt and love her and still want us.its been a on going prob but not for long time.she broke up with cuz she wants to be out and hang with group of friendsgo 2 clubs do whatever-whenever-she got with me cuz im stay at home single dad-dont have much friends dont go out much cuz single dad full time job and we both were opposite of our friends and she loved that we would do everything 2gether.now shes sounding like ive held her back and left me cuz she wants the things that she said she didnt want when we got 2gether.she adored that i had simple life simple guy.she believed couples shouldnt go out clubn bars without eachother-i liked that since i dont really go out anyways.now she wants that and we would fite cuz of the change and now she left-were great in everyway except that issue which i never thought would be an isssue.what do i do i love her and was just starting lookn for ring- i want or wanted to spend my life with her-im confused-sad and wanting us back but want us like we were before this fite or issue -help me-why she doing this and does she still love me-will she come back or how i get us back?she was-we were all we had-thanx please help

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RomanceClass.com Advice
Your girlfriend broke up with you yesterday.

It is too soon to figure out why she did it and what her feelings are other than what she said.

My advice is to try to contact her after a few days and see how things go. Ask her if you can call her once a week just to see how she is doing for 15 min. No talk of relationships, cheerfulness on your part.

Write me again in two weeks if things haven't straightened out.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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