i called the girl he's flirting w/ and he's angry w/ me...

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Good day! I wrote again… My bf and I are doing smoothly.. until I found out that he is flirting w/ his officemate. I broke him immediately but pleaded me to give him another chance. I accepted him again w/ the promise that he would never do it again. But about 2 days later.. he’s asking for space again. I become irritated because he’s always asking for this! I gave him his ultimate freedom.. but after that I realized that I did something wrong. I thought that he was only pressured bec of his review. I asked him to forgive me and I will let him managed his own time if its only because of review. We’re ok again but I could feel that something is wrong. I asked him if his hiding something from me… and he said that his love for me fades… it was really hurt. I did anything wrong from him. I am faithful and very supportive on him. I thought he was just pressured again bec of his review that’s why his love for me fades. Until about 5 days we talked again.. and I found out that he is flirting with that girl! He admitted that he likes the girl and not sure if he still love me.. I don’t want to let him for. For I knew that I will end up pleading him to try again our relationship. This morning I called the girl he was flirting with. My intention was to ask her if she likes my bf so that I can let him go.. But the girl said to me that she have a bf and he was only friend for her and he that fact was known to my bf! I asked her if my bf if is already courting her.. but she denied it..
Now my bf is angry with me because I’m just making things more complicated.. what can I do now? Please help more power and thanks a lot!

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RomanceClass.com Advice
Face facts and "let" him flirt with other girls.

It is a natural thing to do although you may live in a culture where it is frowned upon. In any case, he wants to flirt so you need to learn to live with it or dump him.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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