He Cheated and Wants me back

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. about 3 months ago i found out he was cheating on me and that he had a drinking and drug problem. he had been cheating for about 2 months. i broke up with him as soon as i found everything out. but he called me a few days later and insisted we work it out. he told me everything that happend and says she was just there to give him oral sex. he changed his number. and is in a 6 months program for help with drugs and alcohol. he is also looking for a job and enrolled to start school. in which he was doing nothing before. i told him to give me time at least the summer for him to change and grow up. he sends me flowers once a week and we mostly talk through email. i believe what he tells me yet i still have doubt and am scared he could be seeing other girls and not telling me. i being single at the moment have took the chance to date other guys but none of them interest me. i want him back. im just scared he could cheat or go back to his old ways. would it be wrong to get back with him? or am i better off moving on? because all more love is still there for him yet i get sick to my stomach everytime i think about what he did. is it possible to work things out and be able to trust him again? what things should change in our relationship? how can we develope a better relationship? please give me your imput and tell me if I am on the right path

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It is impressing all he has done to change his life for the better.

It will be very difficult for you to trust him after what he has done. My advice is to go to this website and work out on what they suggest:
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm

Once you have read the webpage and done its exercises, you will be ready to decide what to do about your ex.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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