how to get her back

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
me and my girlfriend broke yp about 2 weeks ago we have been goin out off and on for 3 years. lived together for a year. Both of us were pretty stressed we both lost our jobs about the same time i was getting depressed and denied it until she gave me 2 weeks to leave. thane i got help but she threw my stuff out . i have only called her twice since then she says wants to still be friends. so i havn't called her in 3 days trying to give her some space. i don't know what to do . i miss her alot and she has a little girl 4 years old was like my daughter. i miss them both. i havn't got to talk to little girl since we broke up. she told me once she need a break about 1 week be fore i was out. i feel bad she has no job and was left with all the bills. i wrote her a 20 page letter about 3 days ago explaining how i felt and how i'm getting help for my depression. i don'y know what to do about her. Right now i'm not working either do to a work injury. i want to call her and talk to her but i figure if she wants to talk to me she would call but i don't know. her birthday is coming up next week. i got her a card but havn't sent it yet. i know she would talk to me if i called she sounds happy to talk to me as long as it's not about us. pleasse help

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Take what you can get.

She is willing to be friends with you and seems to enjoy talking with you except when it is about your relationship.

Ask her if you can see the little girl because you miss her so much and want to be part of her life.

Do whatever you have to do to earn some money and let her know how hard you are trying. You know how stressed she is about money now.

You should be able to get some money from the state at least.

Don't give up or get too depressed... it's only been two weeks since she threw you out so she could change her mind.

It sure would help if you had some money!

Good luck. George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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