Cosmetic surgery because im jealous
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old FemaleMy boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now and are very much in love.i never had a huge jealousy issue untill we started dating. I get so mad when theres nudity on tv,or attractive actresses,when he talks to other girls on the phone and in person,or if he even mentions his ex or any other girl.i even get sick in my stomach if i just imagine him looking at porn or going to strip clubs..and being around pretty girls. I want to be the only one who turns him on. I used to be very confident but now i feel ugly when other females appear. I do have trust issues because of ex boyfriends and want to trust mine even though my boyfriend now has done some stuff making me not trust him 100%. I already plan on cosmetic surgery to gain my confidence back. What should i do?
RomanceClass.com AdviceYou mentioned trust. That's a very important thing to build in order to curb jealousy.
Jealousy is a very, very difficult habit to break and often requires a professional counselor to deal with it effectively.
To build your trust, take a look at this website:
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm
Also, fight against the jealousy every chance you get. Tell it to go away and stop bothering you, that your boyfriend loves you and only you. Focus on love as the important thing.
In actuality, a woman could be the most beautiful woman in the world and her partner would probably still take a look at other women. It's just the nature of the beast.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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