Too much jealousy

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I just flat out have to much jealousy.I have looked for help and answers but none of it seems to help.My problem is that i have a girlfriend and every time she talks to another guy i get really jealous.i cant control my jealousy and every time i try to clear it out of my head it just seems to get worse.My girlfriend used to be obsessed with her ex-boyfriend, and im worried that she still does.he goes to a different school but they talk to each other online.i just want something to help me stop being jealous because its ruining me.every time i think about it i get really sad.do you have any suggestions that might help?if you do please help.

---

RomanceClass.com Advice
Whenever you feel jealous, look it in the face and acknowledge that you are suffering from a lack of trust. Jealousy is based on a lack of trust.

Look at these websites for help:

http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/23682
and
http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm

Good luck! George
p.s. if you can't trust someone you should ask yourself whether you really want to be with her.

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

---

Follow @RomanceClass

Tweet

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Jealousy Issues

- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response



Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.