can i ? should i ? have i delayed to long????

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
hi i've got quite i few thing i need advice on

1.i fancy this girl but i don't know if i have left it way to long (e.g 5 mounths )

2.i think i'm not the only one that fancys her and if there are other i never be able to even ask her out

3. i have hardly any confidance at all and find it hard just to go into a shop :(

4.(i'm not sure if she likes me in the same way) (eg. we largh about the same thing and enjoy each other company but i don't know if shes even thinking about takeing it futher)

5.she did go out with my brother but from my brother atatude he doesn't real care and he is only her friend

6. even if we both have feeling for each other we are quite shy so we only mange to say a few thing and then largh about it and walk away (does this mean she doen't like me )

sorry i know there is alot to think about and to advise me but i really have feeling for this person (and i feel that i cant lever this alone and if she said no or something happens a part of me would die ) (yeah i know i should have worded that better i'm not a pchyo)

thanks from your clumsly word person =) Advice
You are doing very well so far! She seems to like you since you both laugh at the same things and talk with each other. Now that it's been five months it is time for you to be brave. Here is a story written about a 14 year old girl who is on a bus with a bunch of older girls and she has the courage to ask a cool motorcycle guy out on a date. If she can do that under all that pressure, you should be able to do it too. Here is the website:

You can only get over shyness by being brave. Becoming brave is often accomplished by taking small steps like the ones you have been taking with this girl. Ask her if she wants to hang out or go to a movie. She will probably say yes. And if she says no then you can stop worrying and wondering over where you stand with her. It is good that your brother doesn't mind if you go out with her.

It think things will work out well for you.

Good luck! George

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