got myself into some trouble....

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I got myself a bit too far into 4 relationships. One girl (a study friend) seems to like me but is shy, another (a study friend) has asked me to be her boyfriend (I didn't say anything in each of the three times she has asked).

and then there is this other girl (a study friend) who I am interested in, who had just met (not through me) the girl I actually like (and have liked for a while and given up because she got a boyfriend like a year ago though they broke up recently).

I can tell in the last week, the best friend of the last girl is trying to set me up with her. But if I go along with it the third girl will notice.

How to defuse this situation without any hearts broken? I just gotten into first year uni and I was just looking for some study friends and this happens :-/ . I could've been looking for guys to study with but I find I study much better with a girl.

P.S you may ask why I would like a girl and be interested in another. I got no idea either, I just do. Advice
Well, you're going to have to make up your mind; choose one and leave the others behind. Not that you would stop studying with them, but without romantic overtones.

It seems obvious that you should choose the one you like the best and then casually tell the others that you have a girlfriend. That should solve the problem for you.

Good luck! George

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