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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi there,

I am a 19 year old male and i have been in a relationship for roughly 2 years now and she is a great girl. its just that i dont seem to have a normal 19 year olds life anymore i feel like i have a ball and chain around my ankle. I also play soccer seriously and having a girlfriend means one suffers. Either she doesn't see me due to sport commitments or my soccer suffers because i have to cut sessions shorter to see her. I really want to be able to give my soccer everything

When we first started going out together we had a great relationship together we did silly things like play fight and i used to grab her bum and we used to giggle about it but now she tells me to get off or stop it. another thing that is getting me down about it is that we dont seem to have much of a sexual relationship anymore and when we do it's pretty 'boring' i could tell you what would happen down to a tee.

I like flirting with girls...not sleeping with them just flirting and going out and having a laugh with them. I also feel like im missing out on meeting new girls!

Im afriaid to hurt her when I finish it and if so how would i do it as i get on with all of her family and i feel that i am letting them down aswell because we all get on togehter. Lastly this might sound stupid but the thought of her with sleeping with other guys gets me jealous in a sense, i never had this feeling before we went out because i was her first

I would really appreciate any advice someone wants to give me, im open to any suggestions!

Thankyou very much in advance

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RomanceClass.com Advice
You are 19 and want to play soccer and have fun with girls. Your relationship with your girlfriend has withered and sex is boring. Break up with her as gently as possible, and call her family members and say goodbye to them. You will regret it if you don't. What you are doing is perfectly normal and is just part of life. Your jealous feelings will go away.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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