how he feels??

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
we'll i have been close to a guy for a short while now and it is great. i love every moment i spend with him. he makes me smile and knows how to make me happy when ive had a bad day. but, i dont always understand where his feelings are coming from. sometimes he will say things that make me think we are just friends and are just really close. but other times, like how he remembers the little things i tell him, or how his body language almost always is very positive in the sense that he wants to be with me, or that he seems to get jealous of other people i am with if he is not there too. but besides all of this, he cannot let go of his ex and i am lost. he will talk about her while he is taking me out. he will bring her up in conversation while i am talking to him about us. its so frustrating, i need your advise. thank you. Advice
A good relationship is based on trust and honesty.

Tell him what's troubling you and ask him if he could stop talking about his ex.

This should be a small change even though he will probably forget a few times...but then you could gently remind him.

He certainly sounds like he likes you a lot.

Good luck! George

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