He keeps breaking up with

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Recently my bf broke up with me y idk he said he doesnt have the feeln he thought he had for me prior to tha he was telln me he want to marry me an wants me to have his first kid i already have 1 not by him we have been together 8 mths an he has brokn up with me 5+ times. He says he love me but act as if he didnt an he jus left town for 3 days hes over dramatic insecure jelious an has low self asteem. But i love him for who he is or am i lying to myself cuz thoes are my turn offs :(help dnt knw if i should jus let him go:'(

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Sorry you are going through these troubles!

Sometimes we get involved with people because they create a lot of ups and downs and that gets the adrenaline flowing. This drama can liven up a humdrum life. And if it is a "bad boy" then there can be a feminine need to fix his problems.

That sounds a lot like what you are suffering. You are capable of loving a better bf who will bring joy into your life. Why not give yourself and your child a present for the Holidays and let this one go. Since you are thinking of it yourself it is probably the right thing to do. Your intuitions are telling you that he is just not the right guy.

Someone loving and caring is waiting right around the corner for you.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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