She Loves to Flirt

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
There is a girl that would sit close to me during lunch. She would always sit close and push up against me and touch my arm and leg. I asked her to go out after work but didn't want to. I started sitting on the other side of the table and now she sits and stars into my eyes and always tries making contact. Inder the table she is alway trying to brush up against my leg.

My question is what's going on? I have tried to ignore her during work and at lunch but seems to be getting worse. When I suggest we get together she always has something else to do. When I tell her that I like her she backs off for a day or so then she's starts the cycle all over. It dosn't seem like she wants the emotional side of a relationship. What do think I should do now? Advice
Lots of girls and guys love to flirt without it meaning anything at all. Obviously you are making the 'next move' and she is showing she's not interested in anything else. She likes flirting, she doesn't want to date or go out or other things.

I'd enjoy the flirting attention and flirt back. She's a flirt buddy. There are lots of those out there in the world :)

-- from Jenn
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